Attracting the Right People

I recognize that each person represents a book load of adventures waiting to be shared.

Everyday we surround ourselves with people that have a direct impact on our lives. Some of these people are positive influences and some of them may be considered negative influences. Some of us would like to have more positive people around and us.

Your relationships are a direct reflection of who you, your personality, the qualities you focus on, your thoughts, and your beliefs, your relationships are a direct reflection of who you are and what is going on in your mind and subconscious mind. If you want to know more about yourself and the kind of person you really are, take a look at your relationships; examine the intimate relationships, business relationships, friends and your relationship with your family. What do you see?

If there's anything you don't like then address and change that characteristic within yourself. It's really that simple but it's not something that's easy to do because most people won't accept that they share qualities with those people that they don't particularly like or find negative. But you are what you attract. So if you have someone in your life that is driving you crazy, then there is something within you that attracts such a person, change that and the person will no longer have an impact on your life.

I know what some of you may say, I have a wife/husband who is a real pain. They always put me down, don't let me express myself and I can't say anything right. Now take a look and see what you are doing to attract those qualities in that person. Are you giving them complete control of your life? Are you allowing them to express themselves? Do you prevent other people from expressing themselves? How you treat others will be reflected back to you in the relationships you have. Accept that you have within you those negative qualities that you see in the relationships that you have and you can begin to change so that you attract the right people and bring out the best in people.

If you want to attract the right people start by being the kind of person that you want to attract. If you want dedicated employees, be more dedicated to your employees and you'll attract employees who are dedicated to you and your company. If you want to have loyal friends then start being loyal to your friends and those around you then you'll begin attracting loyal friends. If you want to have a caring and loving relationship with your spouse, start being more caring and loving and you'll bring out those same qualities in him or her.

Remember -- you only get one life and one chance. Make the most of it. Stop defeating yourself; stop limiting yourself. Create all the success you want and deserve in life.

"If you train your mind to search for the positive things about other people, you will be surprised at how many good things you can observe in them and comment upon." ~ Loy Mcginnis

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